Dear pink, thanks for the vibes as always. Please hmid if you post. Looking for some advice. A friend of mine dated 3 guys at her church and developed the nickname “collection plate” as a result. She only found out after the fact. She didn’t see anything wrong at the time because she thought that because she was in church that all the men were looking for serious relationships so she didn’t expect to get clowned like that. My issue is that, at my gym, I dated a guy, seriously dated, talked about the future and all, for 2 years, but things just never worked out. No one at the gym knew we were dating. They probably saw and suspect but no one knew.
Other guys at the gym are now interested in me. Would it be wise to date another one of them considering what happened to my friend? Or should dating anyone at that gym now be off limits to me?
Collection plate nuh too bad..but Unless you don’t mind being labelled threadmill or bicycle, I don’t see why you shouldn’t exercise your freedom to fuck whoever you like.