Gn Pinky. Please HMID….. I am days away from giving birth to my first child and my baby daddy decided to ask me a question for the fourth time now. “Would I be ok with him going to a prostitute while I heal after the birth?”. I told him the same answer as the past three times, “No, I wouldn’t”. He asked me why, when it would just be him relieving stress and he wouldn’t even have a emotional connection to the person and I told him it’s just not something I would feel comfortable with, especially knowing that I’m vulnerable at that time and I would honestly want to break up with him. We have been having sex throughout my whole pregnancy and I just feel like 6-8 weeks of exercising self control shouldn’t be hard, but I’m not a man so I don’t know if the urges are that bad. Then he told me that young girls don’t know how to keep a man because he’s sure couples who have been married/together for long periods of time knew they had to accept reality and not let little things come between
Them……. Now, it hasn’t happened yet but should I prepare myself for the day he comes to me and tells me that he has been with a prostitute?. Is it the norm for married/ committed men to do this?. I just feel cheating is cheating and paying for it doesn’t justify anything. However, I would like to know what others think of this.
sounds guilty like he been there already, he just looking for your approval
Him dweet already. Consider yourself lucky because at least he’s telling you indirectly. Some other women do not get that courtesy. Btw a wah dutty nasty man this eno.
Girl you can do bad on your own. RUN LIKE LIGHTENING BOLT, THIS MAN WILL GIVE YOU GERMS. HE’S NASTY AND YOU BEST BELIEVE THAT HE’S BEEN WITH PROSTITUTES BEFORE.. HAVE YOURSELF CHECKED FOR VENERAL DISEASE.. I KNOW IT MIGHT BE DIFFICULT FOR YOU BUT, SURROUND YOURSELF WITH FAMILY MEMBERS AND GOOD FRIENDS WHO CAN SUPPORT YOU EMOTIONALLY. THIS BWOY DOESN’T LOVE NOR HAVE ANY RESPECT FOR YOU ELSE HE WOULD NOT HAVE THE NERVES TO BRING SUCH ARGUMENT IN THE FIRST PLACE., ESPECIALLY SEEING THAT YOU ARE PREGNANT. DON’T LOOK TO FIND ANY EXCUSE FOR HIS REQUEST. HAVE SOME SELF RESPECT AND DECENCY ABOUT YOURSELF , leave this toxic so called relationship AND TELL HIM TO FCK OFF , take him to child support . GOOD LUCK
He’s found a way to tell u when you are most vulnerable. He is trying to break your spirit, he knows u are hormonal, emotional , maybe feeling a little insecure….
Does he regularly try to manipulate you? Is this the first occasion (during pregnancy) that he has asked u to do things you are not comfortable with? He is definitely up to something.,,but I would need a little more info away from this scenario, to work out what is real agenda is.