Hi pinky HMID plz. I met a guy in 2017 whilst I was in my second year at college. He had fertility problems hence he couldn’t get any kids. At the time I met him I was on my face because I had little to no help ( I am on Student Loan).He took me up and decided to help me, which he did. Fast forward to last year, he met a minister at a overseas church and when he returned he showed me a picture of her and told me of her story and how God had delivered her. Pinky, after a while I realize he was talking to this woman very often and I confronted him and he stated that she was ministering to him
, anyways I didn’t bother to run him down has I had 6 courses to run after. He went and baptize within weeks of his return. Two weeks after his baptism he said that he is going to the US to work( bearing in mind he is self employed and WELL OK). While he was there in the US he called and everything but I knew deep down that I had already lost him . I found out he got married
3 months after he met her. I confronted him about it over the phone and he stated that he is just confused and wanted God to bless him through her because he’s getting old and he needs to get a child to inherit what he has. I understand how he feels and while I sympathize with him it hurts me to know that he walk out on me like that. We had plans to do IVF and all but he walk out on me. Now he is saying that the minister cannot have anymore kids because of medical issues. His priorities also changed, he is now going after his papers and want me to forgive him and wait until his papers sort out, do you think I should wait?? ( keep in mind that am graduating this year and he is the main reason why it is possible).
If you don’t wait for him it’s no loss really. You are like any other leach looking and got a come up. About man walk out on you lol. You claim he has money he will be okay, loads of cum buckets out there to have his seed. INSHALLAH
Girl, the papers was what he was after and not A REAL relationship WITH the minister it seem.
Don’t wait on him, go date other people. he is only as freeuntil he is divorced.
So if your young and fresh why him never impregnate you when you graduate.man just want him papers just couldn’t tell you. Just gwan bill,your time soon come
Listen that man out of your life for a reason, he came in your life for a reason then left when it was time to, move on and find someone with less baggage and problem, this is a sign to start a new. Please take this sign seriously else you will regret it if you hold on.
Girl he had no intentions of marrying you, if he did he would have. He is an opportunist, he will always be looking for greener grass. Always be grateful for his help but at this point just thank him and move on.