Dear Met,
It has only been a few months since I met and developed strong feelings for this Special lady;So much so I’ve even made arrangements to pay down on a decent priced wedding ring.Since lately there has been cause for concern that’s making me want to slow my roll.The main problem at the end of the day boils down to trust and I’ll explain it like this.
Sometimes I’m Scrolling on Social media,just idling or bored,othertimes my friends send me links of funny or interesting posts.Met is not one or two times but can I tell you last night mek 5 times I ketch my lady commenting on like 4 different mix up sites.This is confirming my worst fears that she’s chatting our business a road for one woman to love mix up Suh.The worst thing is that from I met her is like she’s constantly going on and on how much of a private person she is and how she stays off social media and I should too.How Ironic or Hyprocritical you think?
How do you suggest I handle this situation,do I confront her,act like I don’t see her on the mix up sites? I feel like ending it because I think I’ve been decieved and without Trust no Relationship can survive too long.She has many good ways though so it’s not easy to just up and walk away 123.Obviously she’s on Pinkwall,so hopefully she sees this,hi mi bad Chargie!
You sound like a blasted idiot *roll eyes* pussy watch man gwey.Think you ago say she a flirt with other men its her hobby you want end relationship over how pathetic
Do not leave someone who you are in love with for a simple thing like that. You are thinking marriage therefore there will be bigger and harder issues ahead that you would have to deal with. Relationship is about compromising so speak to her about it and see where her head is. Men don’t typically like mix up women so I hope she’ll understand. Don’t assume anything, instead ask questions such as why do you find interest in those sites/ page. Feel her out to see if she is compatible.
I totally understand your concern! This (social media) has become a real issue of sorts in relationships across the board. Honestly.. The fact you come here for advice on a woman you see fit to marry speaks volumes to the communication set up in your relationship… I think you should certainly tell her that you’ve seen her on multiple blogs (which is fine) but contrary from what/who she presented herself to be… this isn’t aligning. You’re issue isn’t with her on the blogs.. But more so the fear that she isn’t as private as you thought.. which is what you are attracted to (I’m guessing)… Break it down simple.. If she nuh dark den she will completely understand and be able to reassure you that your relationship with her is in fact private and that her engaging in mix up online is separate from who she is with you.
Thank you very much,this is exactly what the whole thing is about.Pinkwall and the other sites are on Facebook.For example When someone sends me a link with mix up,I click on and see her using her correct name. Thanks all for your input but I’m going with Anon 12:12pm and BBC advices. I will talk to her Friday and even show her this post.
Talk to her general. Before she rinse out& hang up d relationship on the www too. Mi nuh want my partner acting messy nuff & mixy either. U both can work it out.
On the contrary Dwl” I think he has valid reasons to be concerned. How do you enter into a Union such as a marriage with someone who by his account is setting a DOUBLE STANDARD in the relationship? This can lead to many more double standards. And actually, cheating is not the only reason for concern in a relationship smdh .. so because he’s not talking about cheating he should shut up?!? Smdh . Makes no damn sense to me! The woman telling him one thing and she doing said thing. Listen sender: bring it up NOW. Don’t wait and don’t let it fester and don’t come over here HOPING she’ll read this and switch up. Get some strength in your back and talk to “the woman you love” if she isn’t receptive, as granny seh : TEL SLEEP MARK DEATH and move on. Nuff fish ina see bredda
You sound like you more mix up than her! Weh u a do ova yah??
Me a wonder if da sender ya have sense. Aren’t you over here…sending in your business? Have you seen or heard your business on a gossip site? I hope she read this an lef you.
How dis ya style a writing sound like one of we bloggers suh :hammer
Don’t mind most of these comments sender, I understand your concerns. Just talk to your lady and take it from there, communication is extremely important in a relationship . So just page her and see what she says, and unu reason out unu ting.
All the best
Man tap yuh fuckery!! A wah dis issa prank? Yuh full a shit like crab mek di ooman get likkle mixup inna har life. Lol mi tink a sumting seerus.
Mek di ppl dem man eva tell mi seh mi cyaaah get een nuh mixup an mi tuh di left yuh bumbo. Mattafact gal nuh stay cause him sound like a stalker fi a go choo di same mixup site dem weh yuh deh pan.. him a man mixup, a shemale, run di mixup boi.
Big pussy marie/met stop run up my name on your site bitch
Suh Marie is me now? If u cannot cuss we bout anything else go fold up yourself under the wheel of a moving car
Is that really her or a drop dem want fi drop Pinkwall support fi har and a say a she….could neva SHE.
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A de gyal phone yu did a scroll pon fi you locate har pon pinkwall?! :siul
Yu a no stranger ova yah, so wha set you apart from har besides yu genitals pon “mix up”.
So let me understand… you are having second thoughts of marrying a good woman because she love mix up site? But you are asking for advise on a MUX UP SITE??
You either gay or not sure if u gay lmao
Met /marie you need to stay in your casket as i said stop run up my name on your site ugley bitch .dont you tired to eat pussy met all that ass juices in ypur belly ugley fat slappy bitch
Den if u cyah spell ugly a me fi ague wid u? :travel
Wtf!!!! Mi miss sumting??? How dis go left suh??? Maybe mi naaa read good..
:ngakak :ngakak :ngakak Di battyman wah send di een look like him a work wid him capital sense and not di common one tuh bumbo. Mek battyman affi suh emotional when dem fraid fi come out a di closet a soon 2019 yuh legit can come out but dat nuh mean seh yuh naa go get call a faggot lol what is happening?? And they are always so defensive.