Much has been said about the prowess of Jamaican men, but a recent survey found that women are not convinced they are special in bed.
A recent Gleaner-commissioned Bill Johnson poll found that men are the ones who seem most convinced they are ‘bedroom bullies’.
According to the poll, 55 per cent of male respondents believe that they are better lovers when compared to men from other countries.
But of the women who responded to the survey, only three in 10 feel that Jamaican men are better lovers.
Some 44 per cent of women in the poll believe Jamaican men are either worse lovers or the same as men of other nationalities.
Pamela, a Jamaican woman who has had a Jamaican lover and one from another country, said both men performed at a similar level.
“The only thing say the foreign man was more romantic,” she told THE WEEKEND STAR. “Him like kiss up, kiss up and wine up and love go dung while di Jamaican man dem wi just come and do dem thing, but me prefer the Jamaicans still.”
Another Jamaican woman, who did not give her name, said she had a relationship with a foreigner for almost a year. She also said that she has been with a few Jamaican men, and said she preferred Jamaicans “because dem more natural”.
“The foreign man love oral s*x and I don’t like that. Not everybody like it. The Jamaica man dem can do dem thing,” she said.
S*xologist Shelly-Ann Weeks said she is not surprised by the poll results, arguing that some women are trying to find pleasure while some men believe that they are in a competition.
“They talk about it (s*x) as if it is something they are trying to win and so in a lot of their conversations, you don’t hear them talk about pleasing their partner. You will hear them say things like, ‘mi beat it up’ or ‘mi mash har up,” Weeks said.
Sandra, a Jamaican living in the Cayman Islands, said her experiences with Jamaican men in bed are at best forgettable.
“My most memorable and unforgettable s*xual experiences have been with a foreigner from the Eastern Caribbean. He is very selfless. He caters to my s*xual desire and takes pride in completely satisfying me. S*x is fun with him. It is never humdrum. We explore different positions, tactics and movements. Unfortunately, my experience with my Jamaican brothers is not comparable,” she said.
Sandra said Jamaican men come up short because “they do not spend time to understand my s*xual desire and pay attention to my needs.”
“Their main objective tends to be getting an orgasm. They are not willing to explore and try new things,” she said.
Meanwhile, men and women have basically agreed that Jamaican women are better lovers than their female compatriots elsewhere in the world.
The survey found that 48 per cent of men and 50 per cent of women feel that Jamaican women are the best lovers.
Only 15 per cent of males had a dim view of the love-making skills of Jamaican women while 11 per cent of females feel that other women are better in bed.
Kmt…because the common Jamaican men not washing unu pussc and batty wid dem tongue the sex no good? Nuff a unu wan gi man unu chessy pussc and yard man a tell you go wash dat 😀
Lolololol. I LOVE me Jamaican men and dem phuck. Me love the fact dem challenge me fi be the best pon top, side way and all ways. No lazy phucking. Babes know him challenge will be met head-on.
No soft phuck,pissing and shitting on me under the green, black and yellow a bumbo.
Yard man a truly womb turner and shifter. Hailings to all cocks man of my nation :maafaganwati
Lawd-a-mercy PP, memba yuh have a stalker yuh nuh..mind yuh hot up him/her head :ngakak :ngakak
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When IT jaw or fist get tired me know IT will land ova yah fi get a cum off a me…lolol
SYM bill Johnson commissioned poll,unno margin of error always way off!!Where’s Don Anderson when we need him!!??
Ppl follow me now I’ve been to the burger king in liguanea n the french club sandwich I suspect taste like baby doo doo…but I won’t know for sure till I actually taste baby doodoo. The Kfc at constant spring mek yuh constantly spit out dem chicken!
IS IT FAIR OR ACCURATE TO SAY ALL/MOST/SOME KFC N BK FOOD IN JAMAICA NO UP TO PAR!!??NOO RIGHT? SO HOW DI BBC TPC PAMELA N SANDRA DEM FI SPEAK FI ALL YARDIES!!??
Oh by the way. ..aahhmm don’t dr.shelly has a court case or fraud case or owe money or some mixup that was on ya n the popo did go fi har or something to that effect! !
Look like she a one a dem want turn our paradise into a nation of bowas!!Bad man don’t stoop or bow fi pleasure or anything! !Cabin stabbings n koki deh ya fi wheel under Dorothy! !!The Yardies are world renowned for our sexual prowess,we even have a viable legendary industry to how we a champion stulla ..Google renta dread for urself n see di proof!!SOME A UNNO FI GWEH N STOP WATER DUNG DI THING BY TRYING TO REPLACE OUR TRADITIONAL “F” UCKINGS WITH “S”!!
Shelly ann a genuine fraud! She nah sell nothing you can’t find elsewhere. Manners and she a no friend and she could a sick a million times over…no sympathy here.
Gm dearest sista PP
But the memory understandably will buck shuffle with the passing of the years…however I think I recall a post or comment on jmg that she did a keep a bashy event n the police just shut it off and escort her away.
Impossible for us to agree always so of course me have sympathy for the sick..unless you’re a hardened criminal ..like say a Shaneke now while I wouldn’t wish sickness pon anyone. ..I WOULD BE IN AN UPBEAT MOOD IF ANYONE INVOLVED IN RAPE GET SICK!!
Well, fi all di different punch and mix up wah dem luv drink fi boost dem, dat dun meck you know if you need all dat boosting nutten nuh dideh to begin with. Good lovers are few and far between anywhere.
@Yardie, @Phantom, thank you!!!!! Want i’ want i’, cyaan get i’ and get i’ get i’ nuh want i’!!!!!
Almost every Foreigner desperately crave, love and appreciate yardie loving, if it’s even one in their life, but many of us want to change the ting and and ah look fi di nearest Gully Bop esque mouth fi palla palla inna dem ole! Shabba seh hard and stiff and dem waahn soft/dead!
@Anon 10:11, What the hell are you rambling on about????? When you bathe, don’t you lotion your skin????? When you wash your hair, don’t you replenish the moisture with healthy oils and or moisturizers to compensate for what was stripped away by the harsh chemicals in regular shampoo????? Suh yuh nuh believe in watering a lawn then, cause rain wi fall, right????? And yuh nuh take vitamin and other beneficial supplements or eat foods rich in those energy/health boosting substances, right????? Not a damn thing is wrong with a cocks man or any man who is very sexually active, to drink or eat stamina boosting meals and beverages!
You miss the point. If mi thirsty likely mi dehydrated, if mi lotion it mean mi skin dry, and I don’t lotion every shower, especially in summer time, if mi wearing glasses it mean mi have vision problems, and if mi taking supplements it mean mi lacking nutrients from mere diet alone, meaning mi not eating complete. So a man even as young as in him 20s who must drink stamina boosting juice mean something is lacking in him naturally sexually. Meck a man wah nuh need no heap a mixup come talk, but all who muss drink juice fuss can gwan guh siddung, except dem old.
My Jamaican man is the best I’ve ever had. He’s more interested in making me come and once he knows he pleases me then is when he sastifies himself.
Plenty jamaican men f uk too much waste gal suh as dem done them leave, dem not even ask the girl how she feel. When women stop tek people man dem will have better experience, serve dem right. Uno think nuff men whey want a one f uk gonna romance uno, hell no. Plenty men dont even french kiss unless a dem wife or bonified so yes nuff a uno whore out dey wont have a good time, some men nah kiss nor kiss uno titi a soso fuk uno get, but if uno a side chick wat uno did expect lol. A good, if uno tek a likkle man fi uno self him will show uno a good time n mek sure u cum most times. Side chick uno brag bout teking people man n husbands suh uno tek whore f**kk n shut up.
JAMAICAN MAN ARE SELFISH LOVERS TO BLOODCLOT. DEM ONLY HAVE SWAG THAT WILL ATTRACT MOST WOMAN. THEY ONLY PLEASE THEMSELVES. THEM JUST DAGGER. NO THEYRE NOT ROMANTIC MEN AT ALL. TRUE MOST JAMAICAN WOMAN ARE STONES THEMSELVES DEM CAN’T TELL THE DIFFERENCE. ALL SOME JAMAICAN WOMAN DEH PON IS SHOW OFF DI MAN AND BREEDING FOR SOME SO CALL WANNA TO BE TOPMAN.
AMERICAN MAN OR OTHERS( SPANISH MAN) WILL ROMANCE YOU, KISS, FOREPLAY, TALK SHIT, GRAB UP DI BREAST, THEY MAKE YOU FEEL WANTED AND YOUR BODY SPECIAL. JAMAICAN MAN ARE DOERS NOT PLEASERS. IT’S NEVER A CONNECTION REALLY WITH THEM. DEM WANT ALL OF THE SWEETS BUT CAN’T GIVE YOU AH LOLLIPOP.
I SEE WHAT SOME OF YOU GUYS WRITE. SEX IS SUPPOSE TO BE BETWEEN TWO PEOPLE IN A LOVING RELATIONSHIP. WHY F**K AROUND IF YOU NAH PLEASE AND ARENT WILLING TO DO THINGS TO PLEASE YOUR PARTNER? THERES NO RULES TO HOW YOU SUPPOSE TO PLEASE YOUR MAN OR WOMAN. STOP DI F**KERY.