Hello pinkie please hide my id. First time writing to you. My bf and I have been together for 3 years, been through a lot together and we love each other very much. We have our issues like any other couple but I think there are other things that will drive me away from him. I can’t take away that he is a great guy, he makes sacrifices for me and has my best interest at heart. However he has some cringe worthy habits. Don’t bash me please asking if I didn’t know this before but I tried to look pass it and they weren’t so obvious in the beginning. If he is eating you can stay from the other room and hear him clapping him mouth and he eats as if he’s always chewing hot food(he is fat Idk is that has anything to do with it). Another thing he had a reflex action of wiping his hand on his shirt or pants when eating. In public too and he doesn’t care. He is very untidy as it relates to his living space I have to be cleaning up behind him and it’s annoying. He doesn’t take care of himself
His toes etc underneath them looks like they are rotting. I would help him with these things but we don’t live together at the moment. When we do meet up I try to take care of him like any gf would. I love him but lately I realize that he has just let himself go “big and leggo” I have no problem with his weight but I think he has used it as an excuse to be untidy, nasty and all that. What do you think I should do?