Dear Met,Metters and Peepers,
I’ve just finished a conversation with my great bonafide sistren.We have been friends since 1991 so I was very concerned when she said she was stressing and needed me to check out a link online and tell her what she must do.Met I saw the most heartbreaking, shocking and gut wrenching thing.My friend had gone on social media and posted details of how she was raped in 1994.
Her alleged Rapist attended that cultish high school that claim they are of royal blood and colour.My bonafide went into the heart of the matter and Met this is some tangled messed up headache! !!She’s married to her high school sweetheart who she met when he and his Boyz came to our high school for Maths extra lessons. Her husband’s friend is who allegedly raped her and now after 23 yrs,she’s find the courage to come forward. Instantly two immediate major problems has now arisen.
The first problem in which I think she’s wrong; comes from how she went about it. She went to Social media basically the world and shared her ordeal without consulting her husband. He knew about it after his friend ,the same accused rapist sent him the link.Met the accused was able to convince his friend the hubby that my friend his own wife;was lying! Can you imagine the man closed ranks and stay loyal to his cult over his own wife?However when you are married, both of you ought to act in one accord,one voice comes what may,together as one you face it. You don’t just do ur own thing.
The second problem is that their marriage is on the rocks because they both feel betrayed by each other. He has known his friend long before his wife and swears his brotha wouldn’t do that. Moreover she’s gone and embarrassed them according to him,by going public. My friend says she can’t stay with him because he has chosen not to support her in this dark hour and she feels like packing up and return to Jamaica with their daughter.
She wants to come to Jamaica in April for 3 weeks to get away from it all and we hang out. Met I promise you that I’m going to tek away myself from this one. The truth is it would be great to chill out uptown in the golden triangle area away from this Ghetto life, but all I could offer her is a shoulder to cry on, something decent to ride on and moral support.She needs and deserve more and I will goodly make it worse.
I still want to help her so I am asking for your thoughts, the best of which I will share with her . she’s wrong for not telling her husband but Met he is more wrong for going with that cult.They are downright God awful and we’ve all seen those bumper stickers and cultish behavior at boyz champs.Only Some Christians and Kartel Gaza’s rabid fans come anywhere close to those Lambs. MET to think that bastard all those years ago could have raped her and told her that his bestie won’t believe her . Is it any wonder she stayed silent for if your childhood sweetheart, your husband won’t believe you, who will??She loves her husband ,how do they fix this Met? I weep for my beloved girlfriend.