Hello, I’ve been with this guy for almost 2 years right. I love him but at this moment in time I’m not sure if I should stay anymore. We’ve been arguing about everything and each time we argue I just feel more and more like I’m going into a shell. I use to be able to can say what’s wrong and all that communicating but even that I’ve stopped. It makes no sense to me to be constantly having to tell someone the same thing over and over for them to still not do it. When I tell him that I need more effort overall if I don’t do or plan anything we don’t see each other. I purposely never plan anything and he did nothing when confronted he said he was going to but like I spoke out before he did. Next time I waited a while before I flipped out he never do nothing same-way. When I ask to be treated better I get trampled with the whole life isn’t like a movie and all that. When I speak about something that’s bothering me instead of trying to comfort me all he’s been doing is giving me excuses Or telling me why he couldn’t like do what I wanted him to do but he doesn’t ask how he can fix it or even make suggestions to say going forward he’ll do better I get nothing. There’s a lot going on it’s not a case where he is like a cheater well to my knowledge I believe we’re past that whole thing. However, other things are affecting us and each time we go off it’s honestly affecting me. I love this guy and I thinks that’s he loves me. I just want to know it this normal for couples to have such rough patches or if I should leave. I’ve changed so much for him, I and totally with him and him alone. I honestly saw a future with him but right now as he is I’m not sure. He can be super rude like shout and call me names and all I spoke to him made him know that it’s unacceptable for him to deal with me like that for I’ll leave. I’ve seen changes there but I still see no effort. I’m tired of doing everything I’m a girl like we like little gestures too I hate to spell out everything then When I do spell it out I get shut down anyways it makes me feel stupid so I legit stop expressing my hurt and I don’t think that’s healthy. I find myself pushing things under the rug for I’m trying to prevent an argument cause everything turns into one. He’s a good guy believe me but when we have bad times it’s awful and that’s what I can’t manage. Last night I asked him if going forward if he’ll be making adjustments to do better this guy told me he’ll try so I told him I cannot sigh up for that. It’s either he’s in or he’s out and we argued more he did the normal like try to bring up old issues and all which I had to let him know that we’re focusing on this and this alone like I need a yes or no and all now him nu change it knowing that I was going to leave. Should I let it rest for real or should I try? Is this normal in a relationship? Please do not bash me I honestly just need advise.