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MET, ALL I WANT IS A CHILD

Good day, I know your wall isn’t a tell me pastor page or nothing, I just don’t have anyone to talk to. Ive by trying to get pregnant for years and it’s not working, I’ve tried to do adoption here in the states n jamaica, the cost is too much here and in Jamaica the waiting list is ohh so long, I’m so depress and unhappy I cnt sleep or eat. I feel empty inside all I want is a child, I remember when I was a child growing up I use to see a lady that lives next door my moms house not having children and she was always sad, she helped to grow most of the kids there but yet still people would still curse her and say she is barren but I didn’t understand till now, I’ve been to list of doctors, I’ve tried lots of fertility drugs but it didn’t work out. Doctors say nothing is wrong with me so why cant I get pregnant. I was pregnant when I was 20 I fell n had a miscarriage, and everytime I think about it I feel sad, if I was abit careful I would have been a mother. I’m willing to pay someone to carry a child for me, or someone who wants me to adopt one from them, please someone out there please I’m helpless and unhappy, please help me please, if anyone interested leave a comment n I’ll contact you,

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12 comments to this article

  1. Noela

    on December 18, 2018 at 2:19 pm - Reply

    Contact me 8768915593

  2. Anonymous

    on December 18, 2018 at 2:21 pm - Reply

    Lady u have all kinds of roots medicine & u spouse have to be compatible… if u serious I know a roots man

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  3. Anonymous

    on December 18, 2018 at 3:25 pm - Reply

    Drink dog blood bush. It worked for me.

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  4. Nameless...

    on December 18, 2018 at 4:15 pm - Reply

    Sender my heart goes out to you. While I have no title which qualifies me to respond properly, I was once told by the medical profession that I was unable to have children because of medical conditions being a preemie baby, but faith in GOD, prayers patience I had a miracle child but that’s another story. I mentioned that because I too felt empty and lonely and dreaded that my fiancé at the time would leave and no one would want me if I was in fact barren.

    My concern for you is that you express being unhappy and describing feelings of helplessness. Those are strong emotions for you to add a small child to that. Children are a blessing and joy, but there are also a huge responsibility and can pose a lot of challenges. Make sure you have a supportive network of people around you. That your finances are in order and that you try and get some kind of counseling to put you in a better place mentally before you take the responsibility of a little bundle of joy. The child can add to your stress if this is not a well thought out process.

    I wish you well and hope it works out in your favor and that joy is awaiting you whatever the outcome. Bless up.

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  5. In my opinion

    on December 18, 2018 at 4:17 pm - Reply

    Sorry to hear of your pain girl. I’ve been there. Firstly, what age are you? Age affects fertility. Your chance of conceiving quickly does depend on your age. Women are most fertile between the ages of 20 and 24. It can take much longer to get pregnant when you hit your late 30s or early 40s.

    Secondly, how is your overall health?. I know your doctors say there is no reason why u can’t have kids, but what tests have they done to prove this? Have you had a blood test at different times in your cycle to show that you are ovulating properly? If you are ovulating correctly, are you having sex during ovulation? You can buy over the count tests in America to check your ovulation cycle and make sure you have sex on these days, which is when u are most likely to conceive. Are you overweight? Bigger woman sometimes find it hard to conceive.

    Sorry to be evasive, but Have you ever had any sexually transmitted infections? Have you been checked for an infection? These things can also mess with fertility.

    Are you with a steady partner? Could it be that he has the low sperm count? If so, is he willing to take tests to show his sperm count.

    How are your periods? Are they regular? Have you ever been on the pill or any other female contraceptive? These sometimes tend to “clog” woman up and can take many years before the system is regulated again in some cases.

    Before looking at surrogates, the doctor should advise you of hormone treatments. You also have the option of IVF if you are not conceiving naturally.

    Which doctors have you seen hun? Are they US doctors or Jamaican doctors? I’m sorry to say, but I have no faith in Jamaican doctors. If you are seeing doctors, they should be advising of the above. What tests did they offer you?

    Don’t listen to these dirty peoples who call females baron and like to make an example of childless females. There are some disgusting people out there who simply do not deserve children. You may just need to make a few tweaks to your routine and observe the above pointers as a starting point. I feel your pain and God will bless you girl. Do keep us updated if you can. Pink wall no dear pastor, but most of we here have a heart and we like to advise and help when we can.

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  6. Anonymous

    on December 18, 2018 at 4:23 pm - Reply

    When I was in my early twenties I had that problem and doctors say nothing is wrong with me. I did a test to see if my tubes were blocked but they were not. I heard of a OBGYN in Spanish Town by the name of Dr.Smith and I went to him he game a pill and said I should take it 7 days after my period. I became pregnant right after. I went back and asked what was wrong because the pill worked and he said my hormone was imbalance. My daughter is almost 13 and is my only child, now I’m having issues again but this time I am diagnose with PCOS. I need to go back to Jamaica and find back that doctor. I’ll try to get his info and send to met for you. In the mean time, read up on PCOS and see if you have any of the symptoms because it is the leading cause of infertility in women.

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  7. Anonymous

    on December 18, 2018 at 5:22 pm - Reply

    Keep he faith nothing happen b4 the time.

  8. Anonymous

    on December 18, 2018 at 6:05 pm - Reply

    Dr. Smith is dead

  9. Anonymous

    on December 18, 2018 at 6:25 pm - Reply

    If i carry a child in ny womb. I coild never give it up . No way. Here in a farin u can start out by being a foster mom

  10. Anonymous

    on December 18, 2018 at 9:53 pm - Reply

    I use to feel how you feeling,I tried many years and never got pregnant, until 2007 I had an etopic pregnancy and then it took me 2 years to get pregnant.I use to drink the hebalife tea,it will flush you out and trust and believe you will get pregant.Just buy the tea and drink it with hot water every morning and give yourself,3-4 months.

  11. Anonymous

    on December 19, 2018 at 1:34 am - Reply

    If your uterus not responding and all your attempts at adoption are not working out then maybe for whatever reason God does not want you to get involved in motherhood, at least not at this point in time. Perhaps there is another way God wants to use your life, in a more profound and glorious way that surpasses common motherhood. Mother Teresa never gave birth, but she was a mother to thousands. Oprah is not a mother to any child, but spiritually she is a mother to thousands. What if your calling is not to be a mother to one, but to thousands. Carrying life and adopting are not the only ways to be a mother, motherhood shows up in many different ways. Open up yourself to other possibilities.

  12. Teacup Ready

    on December 21, 2018 at 11:30 pm - Reply

    Change your diet… Go vegan and if possible, include a little freshly caught fish from the sea. Some of us women are having issues with reproduction due to the endocrine disruptions faced as a result of the junk we eat. I remember when I first stopped eating chicken. Within 3 days, I was ovulating and this was an issue for me.

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